NeuroSparkle Posts

Limerence, the intense and often irrational romantic attraction towards someone, is a complex and multifaceted condition that we can understand through the lens of hot and cold empathy gaps. A hot-cold empathy gap is a cognitive bias where individuals tend to downplay the impact of their inner, instinctive urges on…

Limerence is a heart-wrenchingly complex and overwhelming experience, and it can be difficult to think clearly when you are caught up in the emotions and thoughts that come with it. However, striving to view yourself, your limerent object, and life itself clearly is a crucial part of the recovery process.…

I’m going to keep this post as concise as possible. In short, I’ve been doing a lot of scientifically-inspired thinking about the overlap between limerence and OCD. Many of you ask me about this topic, and I’m committed to providing the most accurate info. I can. They’re different conditions, don’t…

Happy Friday! I’m pleased to announce the release of an innovative, exciting new resource I’ve put together to help you overcome your limiting beliefs and fears. It’s all about paradoxical intention – a fun, battle-tested psychological technique we can use to clear your path of obstacles. You’ll get a detailed…

Reproduction is highly evolutionarily important, so it’s natural that we experience strong emotions in response to attraction – there’s no need to try and convince yourself that romantic relationships aren’t exciting to you, or a potential attractive partner isn’t enticing. However, allow the higher part of you – the logical…

A critical part of limerence recovery is realizing and accepting that you are deeply powerful. That you have never been weak, because limerence is a passionate, momentum-filled, goal-oriented state. One you learn to rechannel your feelings towards constructing your dream self-concept and dream life, limerence will fall away like the illusion it is.

I believe that every single person reading this could benefit significantly from cultivating more self-love. From learning how to cultivate a stronger, purer positive feeling of love directed at yourself. This may sound like generic drivel, or contrived social media positivity – but I mean it wholeheartedly, and want you to really suspend your disbelief here and consider how why you, personally, should love yourself a lot more.