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Worried That Recovery Will Be a ‘Waste of Time’?

Are you struggling with limerence? Are you finding yourself constantly preoccupied with thoughts of another person, unable to focus on your daily responsibilities and personal goals? If so, now is the time to take control and overcome this consuming state.

You may be thinking that you are too busy to put in the steps required to recover, but the truth is, recovery is a process that takes time regardless of whether you start now or later. The longer you wait to address the issue, the more it will continue to interfere with your daily life.

The longer you allow the fickle emotions of infatuation to control your outlook on life, the longer you will continue to miss out on opportunities for personal growth and healthy relationships. Every day that you remain in this state, you are sacrificing your own well-being and potential for happiness.

Healing from limerence properly (a process I teach in The Limerent Mind) saves you colossal amounts of time in the long run. Imagine how efficient you’d be, free from the emotional rollercoaster and anxiety of unrequited love.

Overcoming limerence now will allow you to move on and focus on other important aspects of your life. You’ll be able to devote more time and energy to your work, relationships and personal goals, rather than constantly thinking about someone who does not crave your presence in their life.

In short, right now is the best time to overcome limerence. Don’t let this state consume any more of your time and energy. Take the necessary steps to regain control of your thoughts and emotions and start living your life to the fullest. Remember, the longer you wait to address the issue, the more it will continue to interfere with your daily life. Don’t miss out on opportunities for personal growth and healthy relationships – take the plunge right this moment!

Act like recovering is a matter of life or death, because it is – limerence will rob you of your quality of life if you tolerate it. And when you decide to extinguish it, it will shrink… for it cannot be sustained once you become someone incompatible with it. In