After enduring limerence and recovering, you naturally start to observe people differently. Personality traits that you may once have admired and swept up in vague, intoxicating categories such as ‘exciting’, ‘intense’ and ‘fun’ are now character features that you can put precise labels on and whose less glamorous sides you can clearly see.
Today, we’re going to consider whether the first time that you wake up to the excruciating intensity of unrequited limerent...
Someone very emotionally moved by you will face you with a). receptivity and b). an open energy field; despite how shy or reserved they may be, their desire to merge with you (healthily and non-obsessively) will shine through any façade of being cool, calm and collected that they intend to uphold.
I am delighted to announce the release of my newest book, Exit The Dream. As with limerence, chronic depersonalization and...
Today, we are going to confront an issue that can coincide with overcoming a painful limerent episode, which is the tendency to look back on this period of your life with immense regret and shame. Conquering limerence is dramatically easier than people realize, so it is understandable that you feel appalled and mortified at the injustice of having spent months or years trapped in an illusion that ended up being simple to escape. However, these low-frequency feelings will keep you a slave to limerence – I’m going to teach you how to transcend them and instead become truly grateful for the lessons that you have learned.
Apart from serious illnesses or devastating news, few things can put a dampener on your holiday merriment quite like unrequited love. Not only do you have ample time to ruminate about the object of your infatuation (your LO) when you are floating through narrow, picturesque streets or lying on the beach, but you are also likely to find that some of your primitive emotions are triggered more easily while away.
What if you are sure that you are ready to transform your concept of self and put in the necessary work, but you still occasionally break down and cry over your limerent object (LO)? Does that mean that you are destined to remain stuck in impossible, embarrassing, unrequited love? Absolutely not!
When I started this project, I knew I was committing to producing something that would render you completely immune to limerence. If you heed the advice in this book and commit to your own expansion, I can guarantee that you will never fall for an LO again.
It was always inevitable that I was going to write a book about limerence, and I am delighted to let you all know that it is coming out soon. Watch this space!
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