Over a year has passed since the release of The Limerent Mind, a book I have since updated and lengthened considerably. I can confidently say that its contents are sufficient to render you entirely, permanently immune to limerence for the rest of your life. Comprising a mixture of a). practical advice regarding how to ascertain and meet your unmet needs and b). subconscious reprogramming techniques that will transform your current belief systems and self-concept (both of which are currently aligning you with limerence and subjecting you to these agonising emotions in the first place), it teaches you how to live as your truest, sparkiest self without limerence being a part of your reality.

However, I decided to rise to the challenge of producing a supplementary resource – something specifically designed to help limerents identify and remedy the numerous ways in which they complicate their adherence to this recovery regimen. In other words, the ways in which virtually all individuals prone to obsessive unrequited love sabotage themselves without realising… despite desperately wanting to feel better and to liberate themselves.

In this new book, Twenty Disastrous Limerence Errors, you will learn all about the twenty most dangerous ways in which you are probably currently damaging your own attempts to heal from limerence.

You see, limerence is an emotionally traumatic experience that instils many fallacious, negative beliefs into your mind and causes you to view the world through a twisted, pessimistic lens. Some of these limerence errors do pertain directly to your limerent object (LO) and your behaviour towards them/the way in which you interpret their actions. However, many of them are incredibly subtle, easy-to-miss mindsets, concerning your perception of the world, your attitude towards yourself, and how you consider people who aren’t your LO.

Critically, all of these issues make it much harder for you to recover – and thus must be amended. Doing so will clear your path of all obstacles and enable you to reap rapid, wonderful rewards from the techniques described in TLM. You will no longer be impeding yourself, so will be able to take all the necessary plunges and sail seamlessly towards permanent emotional freedom (which is what you owe yourself and wholeheartedly deserve).

I’m delighted with how Twenty Disastrous Limerence Errors (click here for Amazon link) has turned out, and can’t wait to hear your feedback. Sending you all my best wishes, and a very Happy September!

“September! I never tire of turning it over and over in my mind. It has warmth, depth and colour. It glows like old amber.” – Patience Strong (1951)