Today, we are going to confront an issue that can coincide with overcoming a painful limerent episode, which is the tendency to look back on this period of your life with immense regret and shame. Conquering limerence is dramatically easier than people realize, so it is understandable that you feel appalled and mortified at the injustice of having spent months or years trapped in an illusion that ended up being simple to escape. However, these low-frequency feelings will keep you a slave to limerence – I’m going to teach you how to transcend them and instead become truly grateful for the lessons that you have learned.
Apart from serious illnesses or devastating news, few things can put a dampener on your holiday merriment quite like unrequited love. Not only do you have ample time to ruminate about the object of your infatuation (your LO) when you are floating through narrow, picturesque streets or lying on the beach, but you are also likely to find that some of your primitive emotions are triggered more easily while away.
What if you are sure that you are ready to transform your concept of self and put in the necessary work, but you still occasionally break down and cry over your limerent object (LO)? Does that mean that you are destined to remain stuck in impossible, embarrassing, unrequited love? Absolutely not!
When I started this project, I knew I was committing to producing something that would render you completely immune to limerence. If you heed the advice in this book and commit to your own expansion, I can guarantee that you will never fall for an LO again.
It was always inevitable that I was going to write a book about limerence, and I am delighted to let you all know that it is coming out soon. Watch this space!
Be careful what you allow to occupy your mind, because spiritual leaders profit immensely from capitalizing on your obsessive limerent feelings. By producing twin flame online content and offering coaching on dealing with the runner and chaser dynamics, they are making you feel validated. However, what you don’t realize, in this temporary state of insanity, is that they are also keeping you trapped by rendering it impossible for you to rewire your brain away from limerence.
Fasting just so happens to be a healthy, simple way to improve your cognition, decrease your emotional reactivity and raise your baseline mood. This can render particularly tough limerent episodes much easier to deal with.
Why, you may wonder, could engaging in something like a foreign language possibly make a difference to limerents’ mental health, when limerence is underpinned overwhelmingly by unmet needs and untreated psychological wounding? All shall be explained.
Blaming someone’s poor emotional boundaries for the generation of your limerence is counterproductive and inaccurate. This is for two reasons: a). the fact that you will never overcome this LO if you fixate on them on any way, and b). the fact that aligning with a toxic LO and falling for them is impossible, and I repeat impossible, if you are not carrying around problematic beliefs imprinted in your subconscious.
If you are prone to limerence, you most likely think you need to be stoic, immerse yourself in work and commit to living a hedonism-free life in order to avoid the allure of the next limerent object (LO). But, what if there are better ways that actually target the wirings of your subconscious mind, project you into a new reality and prime you to effortlessly seek and align with real, mutual love (if you even want a relationship)?
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