Solutions to obsessive unrequited love.
As you will be familiar, the emotions of obsessive lovesickness muddy your perception of the world unlike anything else. Most limerents are very rational and independent in most areas of their life. But, this logic and reason goes out of the window when it comes to their limerent object (LO),…
3 CommentsAre you aware of how to beat limerence permanently, but still seeking a final breakthrough to propel you into action? In this mental exercise, we are going to invert the dilemma of obsessive love/attachment by switching things up… and considering what it takes to stay trapped in its grips. Addressing…
Comments closedIn today’s post, we will be outlining the entire limerence recovery process in an easy-to-digest way. It’s of utmost importance to me to ensure that every single struggling limerent who come across my website knows that there is a way out. That it is entirely within their reach to not…
1 CommentWe are all familiar with the societally popular aphorism ‘it’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey’. Most of us have probably contemplated it and agreed with it, or even uttered it at some point; it seems inoffensive, not too cheesy and, unlike many other quotes that are thrown…
Comments closedI have spent weeks meticulously designing these affirmations, which are highly specific to limerence and guaranteed to powerfully influence and impress your subconscious mind.
1 CommentOver a year has passed since the release of The Limerent Mind, a book I have since updated and lengthened considerably. I can confidently say that its contents are sufficient to render you entirely, permanently immune to limerence for the rest of your life. Comprising a mixture of a). practical…
Comments closedMost people consider romance a highly important facet of life. For individuals prone to limerence, however, it overshadows everything and everyone else. While stuck in fully-fledged limerence, we all yearn for emotional freedom and stability. But, we are also faced with a paradox. Nobody likes the idea of their romantic…
Comments closedLimerence is a mind-bending condition that unleashes an array of obsessional emotions, motivations and behaviours in you. Of course, first and foremost, it drives you to analyse every last thing about your LO. You’ll find yourself incredibly interested in your LO’s life, personal relationships, pastimes, vices, and innermost thoughts.
You’ll catch yourself hanging onto their every last word, dissecting everything they say as if they’re imparting the most valuable information in the world.
But, this isn’t ‘innocent curiosity’ – it’s a destructive symptom of limerence, and is incidental to your desire for complete enmeshment with your LO. It’s keeping you trapped.
Here’s how to deal with (and rise above) your ‘fascination’ with your LO, and their personality quirks and life.
2 CommentsRecovering from limerence is, at points, painful. But, I’m going to teach you a trick that will help you feel better, whenever you feel like you are slipping into a depressive, delusional state.
Essentially, it’s a highly reliable way to change focus and step sideways out of your slump. This is the ONLY way to make heightened limerent longing shrink – trying to fight and wriggle out of the pain simply does not work.
You must, instead, pick up momentum and take a decisive ‘jump’ towards the new – towards new emotional experiences. Here’s how to do just that.
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